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    Online Dating Can Be Tough

    Here’s a little secret that those of the female persuasion keep from us guys: Women, even very beautiful women, like to be approached by a confident and interesting man. Are you surprised? It’s true…and confident and interesting are much more important than looks to ladies of all ages, too. That’s true for internet dating, as well as, dating in your brick and mortar world but we’re talking about internet dating here…so back to the subject at hand.

    Once you have joined an online dating service, you will find that there a lot more men than women and that the men are much more likely to browse profiles and make initial contacts than women. Yes, it’s a woman’s world…still. It’s “traditional” for men to make the first move. It always has been and it always will be. Some things never change. That’s why your profile and picture are so important.

    Remember…confident and interesting….and that does not translate to cocky and self-centered. It’s important that your profile lets people know that you have friends you care about and that you are passionately interested in a variety of things…not JUST sports. Another thing about that all-important profile….please don’t start it with, “I’m the guy your mama warned you about”.

    You will have just shot yourself in the foot with that line. Another one to never use is, “I could be the man of your dreams”. The lady HOPES you are but she will be the judge of that…so don’t insult her intelligence. Remember….exude confidence and interesting and you will find that lady you have been looking for…or she will find you.

    Won’t it be nice to have the ladies contacting you instead of you having to do everything? If you write a great profile that stands out in the crowd, that will happen.

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    John Bair

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    John Bair is it?

    I assume you are no longer aware of that post because it says you made it as a guest in January of 2011.

    Regardless though, I enjoyed reading it because you hit the nail square on the head and I imagine you've either been dating women online for a long time or you've done a lot of research on the matter.

    Although, the phrase "confident and interesting" don't go hand in hand nor are they the desires of all women in the world.

    I started out as a woman's escort back in '93 and decided to start my own business as a Professional Companion in 2002 so I can say that the women who hired me weren't expecting much when the two of us met for the first time. They couldn't care less how interesting I was but they all knew I had to be a confident man to do what I do & have done it for so long.

    All I'm saying is that every woman I've met & have gotten to know on any level have seriously enjoyed being with a confident man and being interesting was just a side-bonus in their eyes.

    Besides, a confident man will always be interesting because he's confident enough to know how to be that way.

    In the first book of my 4-book series, I asked my best female friend to help me write it by starting the book with a very detailed description of the kind of person I was growing up in her eyes and I asked her to do that so I could get a third party's opinion of me before I came into the picture. There's a reason I did that and you'll have to read the book if you want to know what it is although, I am not going to give any of you the link to the order page of my book because I don't want anyone to think I'm here to SPAM this community at all.

    So therefore, if you want that direct link, you can either visit my profile by clicking my name or ask for it in a comment below. I will then give it freely but only if you ask.

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